Dealing Directly with the Energy Within

"Many people are tricked by their own Qi in the same way that I was. One of my teachers, perhaps the best I have met at Tao: Fang Zhong Shu, explained that when he engages in sexual contact or intercourse with a woman, he is not looking at their mind or their bodies, he is "dealing directly with the yin energy within them" which he "worships" as a "goddess". That is to say, from my perspective, that he is cognisant and present in the reality of what is going on, the subtle "transaction" behind the scenes, which our psyches delude us into believing is about something else. That is not to say that you cannot or do not love a person who you are in a committed relationship with. Indeed, you very well might! But that is something very different than what happens when you are first attracted to a woman. You can choose to believe this or not, the reality doesn't change based upon what you convince yourself of. True love of an individual is something that takes time and cultivation, just as true power takes many decades of cultivation."

in Tao Fang Zhong Shu “Sexual Kung Fu” Level 1 Training for “Sexual Alchemy” Taoist Love-Making by Hern Heng